SelectionDAG has a target hook, getExtendForAtomicOps, which it uses
in the computeKnownBits implementation for ATOMIC_LOAD. This is pretty
ugly (as is having a separate load opcode for atomics), so instead
allow making use of atomic zextload. Enable this for AArch64 since the
DAG path defaults in to the zext behavior.
The tablegen changes are pretty ugly, but partially helps migrate
SelectionDAG from using ISD::ATOMIC_LOAD to regular ISD::LOAD with
atomic memory operands. For now the DAG emitter will emit matchers for
patterns which the DAG will not produce.
I'm still a bit confused by the intent of the isLoad/isStore/isAtomic
bits. The DAG implementation rejects trying to use any of these in
combination. For now I've opted to make the isLoad checks also check
isAtomic, although I think having isLoad and isAtomic set on these
makes most sense.