Remove check for standalone and shared library mode in libcxxabi to
allow including tests in said mode. This check prevented running the
tests in standalone mode with static libraries, which is the case for
baremetal targets.
Fix check-unwind target trying to use a non-existent llvm-lit executable
in standalone mode. Copy the HandleOutOfTreeLLVM logic from libcxxabi to
libunwind in order to make the tests work in standalone mode.
Technically only LIBCXX_BINARY_DIR is required up here, but I wanted to keep those three together