Use the in-project clang, llvm-link and opt if available and unless CMake cache variables specify to use a different compiler. This applies D101265 to the new DeviceRTL's CMakeLists.txt which was copied before D101265 was applied.
Fixes the openmp-offloading-cuda-runtime builder failing since D110006.
LLVM_TOOL_CLANG_BUILD seems already obsolete. I searched the whole LLVM project but didn't find where it is defined. The only two places it is still being used is in polly and libomptarget.