This patch changes errors in SmallVector::grow that are independent of
memory capacity to be reported using report_fatal_error or
std::length_error instead of report_bad_alloc_error, which falsely signals
an OOM.
It also cleans up a few related things:
- makes report_bad_alloc_error to print the failure reason passed to it.
- fixes the documentation to indicate that report_bad_alloc_error calls abort() not "an assertion"
- uses a consistent name for the size/capacity argument to grow and grow_pod
clang-tidy: warning: invalid case style for function 'grow_pod' [readability-identifier-naming]
not useful