__declspec(dllexport) and __declspec(dllimport) should only be used
when building libc++abi as a DLL, but that's the more common use case,
so default to adding the annotations and add an option to opt out.
Similar to r282449, which made the corresponding change for libc++.
We probably want to define _LIBCXXABI_DISABLE_DLL_IMPORT_EXPORT on Windows when LIBCXXABI_ENABLE_SHARED=OFF and LIBCXXABI_ENABLE_STATIC=ON.