Any header or module file in the Flang source directory is of no use to the compiler unless it is copied into the build directory. Indeed, all compiler search paths are relative to the compiler executable (flang-new in our case). Hence, "omp_lib.h" should be copied into the build directory alongside other compiler-provided files that can be "included" (header files) or "used" (module files).
For now, "omp_lib.h" is copied into "<build-dir>/include/flang/OpenMP". We may decide to change this in future. For example, Clang copies a bunch of runtime headers into “<build-dir>/lib/clang/<version-number>”. We could also consider using a similar header from a different sub-project.
Flang's driver search path is updated accordingly. A rule for "installing" the "omp_lib.h" header is yet to be added (we will also need to determine the suitable location for this).
Nit: Can you call getIntrinsicDir and then append /OpenMP to it?