Update llvm-lit to switch from os.path.realpath to os.path.abspath like lit to avoid mismatching paths.
Context: D152709 switched lit from using os.path.realpath to os.path.abspath since the former changed behavior in Python 3.8 and now resolves substitute drives used to shorten paths on Windows, causing us to run into MAX_PATH issues (the CMake-based build is already well-behaved with regard to this). Clang tests broke on a few architectures, where breaks are comparing paths with symlinks with path with expanded symlinks. I cannot repro this failure locally, but the likely issue is that llvm-lit still had an os.path.realpath, which would mismatch what the base lit.py now does.
How tested: Ran check-clang and lit tests