OptTable treats arguments starting with / that aren't a known option
as filenames. This means lld-link's and clang-cl's typo correction for
unknown flags didn't do spell checking for misspelled options that start
with /.
I first tried changing OptTable, but that got pretty messy, see PR41787
comments 2 and 3.
Instead, let lld-link's and clang's (including clang-cl's) "file not
found" diagnostic check if a non-existent file looks like it could be a
mis-spelled option, and if so add a "did you mean" suggestion to the
"file not found" diagnostic.
While here, make formatting of a few diagnostics a bit more
self-consistent.
Fixes PR41787.