[ARM][NFC] Avoid recreating MCSubtargetInfo in ARMAsmBackend
After D41349, we can now directly access MCSubtargetInfo from
createARM*AsmBackend. This patch makes use of this, avoiding the need to
create a fresh MCSubtargetInfo (which was previously always done with a blank
CPU and feature string). Given the total size of the change remains pretty
tiny and we're removing the old explicit destructor, I changed the STI field
to a reference rather than a pointer.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D41693