[x86] split more v8f32/v8i32 shuffles in lowering
Similar to D57867 - this is a small patch with lots of test diffs.
With half-vector-width narrowing potential, using an extract + 128-bit vshufps
is a win because it replaces a 256-bit shuffle with a 128-bit shufle.
This seems like it should be a win even for targets with 'fast-variable-shuffle',
but we are intentionally deferring that to an independent change to make sure
that is true.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D58181